Motivational Article 2- The Triangle

We are the men of the generation of science and our mind has been effected by the science. Today, we believe in discovering the reason of everything which is happening into our life rather than accepting that things without knowing.It is not because we are the men of current era but we are the men having desire of knowing and moving forward. In the era of today, everything is becoming so fast and furious which results that all of us are in hurry and worry and with this we are having many things to do and to think off like some of us are tangled in thinking about what they should do in future, some of us are busy in thinking how to earn money, some of us are confused in what is happening to them and so on.

So, the speed of the life which we are obtaining is too fast so that we are forgetting our life and keep on trying again and again to mould ourselves according to this fascinated world. Now, the man who was having belief in knowing everything with reasons has no time for that and is being changed constantly to spend life. It is the reality of today that the man is spending his life instead of living it with happiness because he is having no idea about what he is doing, what the main motive of his life is and what is moving in his life. He is doing things and whatever are that things worth not more than spending a day or to earn some living to pass time. We are just spending our life because the reality is that we do not know why we are here on the earth, what the goal of our life is, why we are different from all other species on earth, why we are called civilized, and many more. 

There are so many questions but the answers of them, we do not know

We are just hanging in a situation that we cannot find the end of our confusions or if somehow we get the solution of a confusion then a new confusion takes birth from that solution. It is a situation which is just like triangle, As in triangle whenever a route(line) reaches to its destination(end) another route starts from the old but having a different direction, similarly in our life, when we come to the end of one of our tangled situation a new situation takes birth from that having a different confusion. So that we can say that, nothing of our knowledge is permanent in this realistic world. “The time when we start thinking that we have defined the solutions about our life, we are tangled in confusions the most.”

So, what we should do to get rid of this confusions and illusions, do we have any way to get freedom from being tangled in the life. Yeah, the answer is with us. All of us have a cause of our existence, a motive after our life as a human being. But the motive, the cause is far from our eyes. It is hidden in our life. It has gone a little far to us while we were tangled in spending our life. We have lost that from our hands for some commercial works of our life. We gave preference to the work to earn money and start forgetting about values. We got much tangled in earning food that we started to seize bread from the mouth of the poor. We started ruining our worldly family to care of our personal family. We started to attack on feelings of people to protect our evils and self. In the absence of the knowledge, we were thinking ourselves as a king. We were thinking that the whole world is in under our wishes. We just lost the moralities and started to go through evils because we had forgotten our motive of life.  

Today, it all is happening into our lives because we are moving ahead while leaving morals aside. We know that nothing is everlasting on this earth but still we are running after the things which cannot help us throughout the life and after life. Perhaps we are earning and making assets today to get some comforts into our life as well as into the life of our children. But we never think that which comfort would be greater than the happiness, which comfort would be greater than the smile, which comfort would be greater than the calmness. No, the Happiness, calmness, smile and love are the very precious and we cannot suggest any value to them.

It may happen that we can get physical comforts with money but how you will get the comfort of your internal soul and mind. So what, you secured a good post in your business by pushing others down and thinking that you are very blessed and you are praised by the people who work under you. Did you ever think that what would be greater than the prayers and praises of a man who got a job because of your efforts. You are earning to give your children the best delicious food to eat but Did you ever think that what would be greater than the blessings of that starving old man who was shivering with hunger and you gave him some food and he praise you. You take many of the life insurances to keep yourself safe but did you ever think that which life insurance would be greater than the prayers and the blessings of a mother whose child was suffering from a death disease but she was not able to give him a treatment and you save her child with your money.

No, we do never think about others about humanity which is the main motive of our life which is the cause of being called as human being. Humanity is our true religion and to help others is the best deed in the universe. I am not saying that earning for your bread and comforts is a bad thing. No, it is the first work about life to earn livelihood but the way of earning must be in the wellness of others. I am telling you to not to be tangled in just your life. I have seen many people who are full of happiness and abundance just because they think that the humanity is with them and it starts from them. I have read in many holy epics and famous books that if there is a true religion on this earth then it is humanity and it’s our duty to work for humanity. 

We are listening from different ages that who peaceful and joyful life becomes when we start to give preference to others more than self. Yeah, many people are remembered just by their positions which they earn but there are only some peoples who are remembered by not what they earn but what they did for others. The whole world sings there harmony. Many of the books are written in their lifestyles. They are remembered the most and whole world gives their examples to live a beautiful life. And only they few are called as the son of god.

This is the only motive of your life that if you are a human being then humanity is your true religion. The cause of your existence is the promise to give value to the duty of humanity because the duty of humanity is the worship of god. You cannot make the god happy by worshiping him while making offences towards his people and doing evils upon them. If you want to be blessed by god, start to earn the blessings of people. If the people of god are happy with you then the god is happy with you. To make your god happy is the best method to break the triangle of confusion and it is only possible if you put your ego aside and give your best in respecting and helping others.

“Life is a triangle of confusions. We do not get rid from the confusions until we understand the motive of our life. And the motive of our life is to make our god happy and it is only possible by honestly performing our duty towards humanity.”

Motivational Article 1- "In the Rain of Pain"

Introduction- My this article is about a side of life when it is pain. This article tells us about what is pain?, How pain affects our life, Why we go through pain, What is our reaction towards pain and what we should do in pain. I Hope my views, will help you in your life.


 In The Rain of Pain

“Life is about enjoying each moment you go through, No matter if you are going 

through hell or heaven. Hell is temporary and powerless, it will pass out soon. 

But the heaven may become permanent and it is joyful.”

What is Pain?

Pain is the word of fear, the word of sufferings, and a thing which can shake everything. 

We know just little about it but we can experience it the most. Actually, the pain has no 

proper definition about it which can really satisfy our views about it. Pain only becomes 

explainable when we go through it otherwise we just refer it to a definition which says- 

“Pain is a physical or mental suffering or a stage of discomfort.” 

Whether the pain is mentally or it is physically but it directly affects our heart and 

feelings. We start to feel black and deep when we go through pain and it changes our sweetness 

into anger which may destroy the whole life. 

 How does pain affect our life?

Where the topic of life arises, we come to know that life has two equally effective but 

different faces. Moreover, All the things have two different faces like if there is birth 

then death is related with it, if richness exists in the world so the poverty too, if the 

success is the result so that the failure too and in many more other cases we can see the 

double faces. Life has its root in Joy and Sorrow, in Happiness and Sadness and in Relief 

and Pain. So it is not about what you are getting in your life. There is no partiality about 

the pain and comfort of life. Moreover, Blaming for your life is worthless when you have the 

power to change it. You will go through pain definitely as you go through joy but remember 

that pain is temporary. It may occur at any moment as an obstacle. 

                        Pain is very painful and it affects our life badly. Pain may create 

many other physical or mental pains. Going through pain changes our mentality about life and 

force us to realize that we are powerless. Sometimes we lose our hope and faith and stop 

trying towards our work. Moreover, in some cases pain force us to fail to live and push us 

towards death when we give up. Pain keeps its effect throughout the whole life. So the life 

is about pain and happiness which create a long-term effect.

Why do we go through pain?

This is the question which is very confusing. When we talk about this, a question arises that 

why god pushes his children to go through the pain? Doesn’t god love his people? We often 

blame to god for our condition and situation but in happiness we start forgetting god. The 

reality about what we get in our life is in what we do in our life. God doesn’t create 

obstacles in our paths and even god doesn’t want us to suffer. But if we don’t go through 

pain for our bad deeds then the universal laws about equality and attraction will fail to work 

and the world will start moving on evils. 

 Well, all the laws of universe tell us about “like attracts like” and “Do good, get good”. 

These theories are very true at some extents of life and they keep us away from evils and 

badness. Almost all the pain of our life is due to our own deeds. Whatever the pain we are 

going through whether it is financial or relationship, whether it is about health or status. 

If we change our point of view towards the pain and obstacles, we shall start finding that

what our mistakes were. For example- if there is bitterness in our relationships then it is 

the result of our bitterness for each other, it is not the fault of god. If we are not getting 

the job then our abilities are not sufficient to get that. If we are suffering from bad health

constantly then it may because of our less care towards our health. 

There are some exceptions too like if we are suffering because of someone else deeds. But these exceptions happen just to teach us and remember these exceptions are also the results of your deeds. Several times we learn from these cases in a wrong way because of our less mature nature that we start doing the same bad deeds with others and we forget that “the end of bad is always bad.” I have seen many people who overcome the pain with goodness and learn to live with more skills and get the wellness too. You might also have some people in your life who overcome from pain with goodness and enjoying their life happily. Actually “the pain is like a dark night which comes before a bright day, only if we don’t do anything bad in frustration or revenge we pass out that dark night and enjoy the bright day.”

our Reaction towards Pain

The very important thing is our reactions which decide that if we should suffer in pain or to 

overcome that pain. Reaction has a great importance because it is the only thing that results 

into what will move next. I have seen many people who remain tangled in pain and they could 

not overcome that pain but in some cases, some other people easily overcome to the pain and 

obstacles they face in their life. We know that we have the same powers but we can see this 

difference around us. The main reason behind this difference is our knowledge about life like 

how to live life? How to overcome Pain? How to take a good action when suffering in pain? 

                                 We know that the knowledge results into reactions when go 

through any situations, that’s why, it is said that Experience and knowledge save man from 

obstacles. Here we are talking about reactions, so according to my experience there are three 

types of reactions- 

1. Neutral Reaction
2. Negative Reaction
3. Positive Reaction 

Talking about the neutral reaction tells us about the people who do not give attention towards 

pain and obstacles and their life philosophy about pain lies in- “Whatever is happening is for 

good.” These types of people remain busy in their ordinary works instead of making the 

obstacles fix. They think that it is a test of life for them and they have to go through this 

but they forget to learn from the tests they face. These people are little lazy as they do not 

stand for changing their life problems. Perhaps, they do not believe in changing their future. 

Yeah, they do hard work but the approach towards their works lies in- “Just to pass out the 

test but not to win.” So in the cases of neutral reaction, good results are very late but the 

good thing about neutral reaction is that people come out of the obstacles but with the same 

lifestyle and not with any change. 

Negative Reaction is the worst reaction not because it does not let us come out of the pain 

and obstacles but it generates more obstacles for us. The people who give negative reaction 

always think that the cause after the happenings of their life is god. They think that all 

the things which are going into their life are because of the god’s wish. They think that the

god wants them to suffer but they never think about “Our life is the result of whatever we act.

” They constantly blame God for their conditions and never realize that the conditions can be 

changed by some efforts. They don’t even think that their life problems are the result of their

deeds but they feel relaxed in blaming other persons for their bad condition. No matter what 

they feel after blaming other people but this is not the solution of problems and pain. 

So the negative reaction creates bad effect in our faith in god and other relationships which 

creates helplessness. Moreover By giving this reaction we only create stress for ourselves 

which lower our confidence and passion and this results into other problems. So by giving 

negative reaction for a problem can generate many other problems. So we can see that the 

negative reactions can create the bad situations which can never let us to win. 

Positive Reaction is the best reaction in the time of pain and obstacles but it is seen very 

less. There are very few people who remain positive in all the situations and its result into 

wellness. Well, the positive reaction has its own philosophy when in pain. The people who are 

positive from their mental attitude look at the pain and obstacles as a lesson. They believe 

in learning from that lesson and to overcome that bad situation instead of blaming others and 

think that the pain will pass out soon. Their positivity creates self-confidence in them which 

never let them moving down. These people are also very positive about the faith they have in 

the god and according to them god is not the cause of their pain but they are if they don’t 

try to overcome. So with these positive aspects they remain at the top no matter which 

situation they are going through.

Conclusion
Well, if we are talking about life then we don’t even known to a single life who 

never faced any problem or who never went through any pain. Pain is obvious to 

come in life but pain does not decide to make us suffer or to overcome that with 

goodness. We are the creator of our life and it is on us that how we face these 

situations. We see in this world that some people are very happy and some are sad, 

some people are enjoying comforts and some cry for situations. The view has no 

value that the happy people never went through any pain or obstacle. They go 

through pains but they know how to stand up and to run to win. “It is all about 

what we react to the situations and then situations start changing according to 

our reactions.” God has provided us equal powers which work for us but very few 

have the knowledge of using this ultimate power. Stop crying for the pain you are 

going through and awake with the positivity to create your life according to you. 

I have seen and read about many positive people and I can say that 

“Only positive people can see the possibilities in every work and everything.” 

Your happiness is within you but the necessary is to change your mentality towards 

it.
                                                       Thank You
                                                       By Varun Munjal
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