Introduction- My this article is about a side of life when it is pain. This article tells us about what is pain?, How pain affects our life, Why we go through pain, What is our reaction towards pain and what we should do in pain. I Hope my views, will help you in your life.
In The Rain of Pain
“Life is about enjoying each moment you go through, No matter if you are going
through hell or heaven. Hell is temporary and powerless, it will pass out soon.
But the heaven may become permanent and it is joyful.”
What is Pain?
Pain is the word of fear, the word of sufferings, and a thing which can shake everything.
We know just little about it but we can experience it the most. Actually, the pain has no
proper definition about it which can really satisfy our views about it. Pain only becomes
explainable when we go through it otherwise we just refer it to a definition which says-
“Pain is a physical or mental suffering or a stage of discomfort.”
Whether the pain is mentally or it is physically but it directly affects our heart and
feelings. We start to feel black and deep when we go through pain and it changes our sweetness
into anger which may destroy the whole life.
How does pain affect our life?
Where the topic of life arises, we come to know that life has two equally effective but
different faces. Moreover, All the things have two different faces like if there is birth
then death is related with it, if richness exists in the world so the poverty too, if the
success is the result so that the failure too and in many more other cases we can see the
double faces. Life has its root in Joy and Sorrow, in Happiness and Sadness and in Relief
and Pain. So it is not about what you are getting in your life. There is no partiality about
the pain and comfort of life. Moreover, Blaming for your life is worthless when you have the
power to change it. You will go through pain definitely as you go through joy but remember
that pain is temporary. It may occur at any moment as an obstacle.
Pain is very painful and it affects our life badly. Pain may create
many other physical or mental pains. Going through pain changes our mentality about life and
force us to realize that we are powerless. Sometimes we lose our hope and faith and stop
trying towards our work. Moreover, in some cases pain force us to fail to live and push us
towards death when we give up. Pain keeps its effect throughout the whole life. So the life
is about pain and happiness which create a long-term effect.
Why do we go through pain?
This is the question which is very confusing. When we talk about this, a question arises that
why god pushes his children to go through the pain? Doesn’t god love his people? We often
blame to god for our condition and situation but in happiness we start forgetting god. The
reality about what we get in our life is in what we do in our life. God doesn’t create
obstacles in our paths and even god doesn’t want us to suffer. But if we don’t go through
pain for our bad deeds then the universal laws about equality and attraction will fail to work
and the world will start moving on evils.
Well, all the laws of universe tell us about “like attracts like” and “Do good, get good”.
These theories are very true at some extents of life and they keep us away from evils and
badness. Almost all the pain of our life is due to our own deeds. Whatever the pain we are
going through whether it is financial or relationship, whether it is about health or status.
If we change our point of view towards the pain and obstacles, we shall start finding that
what our mistakes were. For example- if there is bitterness in our relationships then it is
the result of our bitterness for each other, it is not the fault of god. If we are not getting
the job then our abilities are not sufficient to get that. If we are suffering from bad health
constantly then it may because of our less care towards our health.
There are some exceptions too like if we are suffering because of someone else deeds. But these exceptions happen just to teach us and remember these exceptions are also the results of your deeds. Several times we learn from these cases in a wrong way because of our less mature nature that we start doing the same bad deeds with others and we forget that “the end of bad is always bad.” I have seen many people who overcome the pain with goodness and learn to live with more skills and get the wellness too. You might also have some people in your life who overcome from pain with goodness and enjoying their life happily. Actually “the pain is like a dark night which comes before a bright day, only if we don’t do anything bad in frustration or revenge we pass out that dark night and enjoy the bright day.”
our Reaction towards Pain
The very important thing is our reactions which decide that if we should suffer in pain or to
overcome that pain. Reaction has a great importance because it is the only thing that results
into what will move next. I have seen many people who remain tangled in pain and they could
not overcome that pain but in some cases, some other people easily overcome to the pain and
obstacles they face in their life. We know that we have the same powers but we can see this
difference around us. The main reason behind this difference is our knowledge about life like
how to live life? How to overcome Pain? How to take a good action when suffering in pain?
We know that the knowledge results into reactions when go
through any situations, that’s why, it is said that Experience and knowledge save man from
obstacles. Here we are talking about reactions, so according to my experience there are three
types of reactions-
1. Neutral Reaction
2. Negative Reaction
3. Positive Reaction
Talking about the neutral reaction tells us about the people who do not give attention towards
pain and obstacles and their life philosophy about pain lies in- “Whatever is happening is for
good.” These types of people remain busy in their ordinary works instead of making the
obstacles fix. They think that it is a test of life for them and they have to go through this
but they forget to learn from the tests they face. These people are little lazy as they do not
stand for changing their life problems. Perhaps, they do not believe in changing their future.
Yeah, they do hard work but the approach towards their works lies in- “Just to pass out the
test but not to win.” So in the cases of neutral reaction, good results are very late but the
good thing about neutral reaction is that people come out of the obstacles but with the same
lifestyle and not with any change.
Negative Reaction is the worst reaction not because it does not let us come out of the pain
and obstacles but it generates more obstacles for us. The people who give negative reaction
always think that the cause after the happenings of their life is god. They think that all
the things which are going into their life are because of the god’s wish. They think that the
god wants them to suffer but they never think about “Our life is the result of whatever we act.
” They constantly blame God for their conditions and never realize that the conditions can be
changed by some efforts. They don’t even think that their life problems are the result of their
deeds but they feel relaxed in blaming other persons for their bad condition. No matter what
they feel after blaming other people but this is not the solution of problems and pain.
So the negative reaction creates bad effect in our faith in god and other relationships which
creates helplessness. Moreover By giving this reaction we only create stress for ourselves
which lower our confidence and passion and this results into other problems. So by giving
negative reaction for a problem can generate many other problems. So we can see that the
negative reactions can create the bad situations which can never let us to win.
Positive Reaction is the best reaction in the time of pain and obstacles but it is seen very
less. There are very few people who remain positive in all the situations and its result into
wellness. Well, the positive reaction has its own philosophy when in pain. The people who are
positive from their mental attitude look at the pain and obstacles as a lesson. They believe
in learning from that lesson and to overcome that bad situation instead of blaming others and
think that the pain will pass out soon. Their positivity creates self-confidence in them which
never let them moving down. These people are also very positive about the faith they have in
the god and according to them god is not the cause of their pain but they are if they don’t
try to overcome. So with these positive aspects they remain at the top no matter which
situation they are going through.
Conclusion
Well, if we are talking about life then we don’t even known to a single life who
never faced any problem or who never went through any pain. Pain is obvious to
come in life but pain does not decide to make us suffer or to overcome that with
goodness. We are the creator of our life and it is on us that how we face these
situations. We see in this world that some people are very happy and some are sad,
some people are enjoying comforts and some cry for situations. The view has no
value that the happy people never went through any pain or obstacle. They go
through pains but they know how to stand up and to run to win. “It is all about
what we react to the situations and then situations start changing according to
our reactions.” God has provided us equal powers which work for us but very few
have the knowledge of using this ultimate power. Stop crying for the pain you are
going through and awake with the positivity to create your life according to you.
I have seen and read about many positive people and I can say that
“Only positive people can see the possibilities in every work and everything.”
Your happiness is within you but the necessary is to change your mentality towards
it.
Thank You
By Varun Munjal
for mor life living knowledge contact me at
imvarunmunjal@gmail.com or on+91-8650323659
